OK, so this guy is in my grade and he is in 3 of my classes and in my lunch. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and has been paying more attention to me. Though, even when he was in the relationship I would always catch him looking at me and staring at my eyes. We sit next to each other a lot and we seem to always be talking in our group of friends. But when we are alone it seems to be more awkward and he gets really shy and looks at the ground a lot. But anyway, he always smiles at me in the halls and waves ot me until I smile and wave back. And he is always trying to make me laugh! and he laughs at all my lame jokes. Also he compliments me on my speechs in English even though I do horrible. Also in Biology class today we were learning about the nervouse system and how if u stroke your palm your fingers will curl in. so I was trying it but it wouldnt work and he walked over to me and said”Maybe u have to have someone else do it for it to work?!” So can u tell me what u think…?
O ya and when he said the thing during Biology class he was totally drowning in my eyes and was smiling. And when I told him I could do a magic trick he wanted to see it. So I told him to old out his hand and put it up to mine. He seemed shy at first but did it with a smile. Then I told him to think of a finger and not to tell me. And I would guess the finger by seeign which one twitched. But any way it took me two times to guess the finger and it was the ring finger if that means anything? But he just smiled and seemed disapointed that he had to let go of my finger know! I thought it was so cute.
O ya and when he said the thing during Biology class he was totally drowning in my eyes and was smiling. And when I told him I could do a magic trick he wanted to see it. So I told him to old out his hand and put it up to mine. He seemed shy at first but did it with a smile. Then I told him to think of a finger and not to tell me. And I would guess the finger by seeign which one twitched. But any way it took me two times to guess the finger and it was the ring finger if that means anything? But he just smiled and seemed disapointed that he had to let go of my finger know! I thought it was so cute.
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OK, so this guy is in my grade and he is in 3 of my classes and in my lunch. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and has been paying more att…
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dude…it’s like love….
It sounds like he’s interested. Flirt a little, let him know that you are interested, too. Hopefully, things will progress from there! Good luck!
If he’s shy around you, he likes you. Period.
I think you know he likes you and you just want support before you go out on a limb.
I say he’s totally into you. go for it!
You should date him, at least for a little while. He sounds like a very nice guy! It sounds like he’s really into you, and obviously wants to date you.This also sounds like a guy who won’t pressure you into doing something you don’t want to do.
thanks for giving us detail, i’m like 90% sure he likes you.
he likes you…heres how to tell
1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he Smiles at you,leans towards you and also looks at you a lot. Notice if he shows off in your presence. For example:
* He may approach you and try to impress you, or get your attention by getting in your personal space. If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back. If he ever says, “hey watch this” or something else there’s a big chance he likes you. A bad habit that people sometimes do is try to put other boys down to make themselves look good.
2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he’ll try to catch your eye and hold it. This can be uncomfortable if you don’t like him (or vice versa). If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there.
* His pupils may dilate if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might come across as acting strangely by looking that closely into his eyes.
* “Listen to what he’s saying”. If he likes you, and he’s nervous, he’ll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.
3. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things – all are good signs of a guy liking you.
4. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artist for you to listen to, let you borrow or even make you a cd. Another example, if you play, sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he’s good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well.
5. Notice the way he treats you – does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It’s natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren’t attracted to them. Also, keep in mind that some guys simply will not tease you.
6. Check for signs of nervousness Nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies. Also notice if you call his name, does his head snap around right away or does it turn gradually?
7. Smile – a big smile in return is a good sign. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you; perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you and to flash his smile in your direction then flash a quick smile back to avoid blushing.
8. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he’s interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you’re around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence – do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don’t? Maybe when they dare him in games of truth and dare, they always dare him to do something to you. If so, then there’s a good chance that they know that he really does like you.
9. Be open! Give him room to approach you and talk to you – it can ruin the situation if he hasn’t got any opportunity to do so, for example if your friends are giggling in the background, or you are never on your own.
10. Pay attention to how many times he uses your name. If you talk to him often, watch how many times he uses your first name. People tend to use your name to get your attention, and it shows that they think about you! For example, if you say something, and he replies with “haha, nice, so-and-so” it means he thinks about what he is saying more than if he replies with “haha, nice.” The second doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, but using your name is usually a tell-tale sign.
11. Notice his behavior in conversation. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he’ll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you – but if the topic is something serious, he may just want to know out of curiosity.
12. Notice these tell-tale signs:
* If he wants to talk to you all the time,
* If you turn around and you catch him looking at you,
* If he starts acting nicer when you’re around him,
* If he says “yes” to all the things you ask him to do,
* If he treats you differently to other girls,
* If he looks at you a lot every time you smile or laugh,
* If he acts immaturely around you, like poking, teasing or playful flirting,
* If he seems to always want to hang out with you,
* If he gets closer with a body part, or if he tries to touch you (e.g. when you touch him he might touch you back),
* If you catch him peeking at you and he smiles,
* If he tries to make you laugh,
* If he tries to copy you,
* If he walks up to you out of the blue and hugs you,
* If he tries to keep you in view for as long as possible or tends to look around and stop when he finds you,
* If he subtly looks at you but makes it look like he is looking at the girl next to him,
* If he constantly calls you and uses an excuse -such as ,What was the home work?
* If he goes out of his way to talk to you (e.g. if he goes to the other side of your school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there),
* If you block him on instant messenger and stop talking to him, and he finds a way to talk to you (note: this may be considered a form of stalking)
* If he invites you to his birthday party or any kind of party,
* If you flirt with a friend of his when he can see, and he looks jealous or automatically flirts back, (but don’t flirt with them just to find out if he likes you)
* If he talks to you and wants to know how you’re doing,
* If he is nicer or tries to talk to your friends,
* If he asks about you to your friends when you’re not around,
* If he asks you to dance with him at the dance.
* If he walks past you and tries to look cool so you can glance at him
* If a guy tries to show you things he got that are somewhat expensive (e.g. a cellphone) or he tries to impress you,
* If you notice when he gets out of class and starts to walk a little slower than usual, then hes trying to give you the opportunity to talk to him!
* If he always talks to you there’s a great chance that he likes you.
* If he feels so awful letting you down that he lies.
* If he would do anything to spend more time talking to you (e.g. if he talks to/texts you until 2:30 in the morning).
* If you realize that he ignores you when your looking but when you look out of the corner of your eye, hes turns back around to look back at you,
* If he’s talking to his friends and nodding like he’s paying attention but you realize hes not, hes actually been staring at you the whole time!
* If he walks down the hallway (at school) and he “accidentally” bumps into you/touches you/moves your chair/pulls your hair exc.
13. Watch his body language! Whenever you are in a group of people with the one guy you think likes you, look at his shoulders – believe it or not, sub-consciously the guy will not want you to think he is ignoring you so his shoulders will be pointing at you, he may be talking to somebody else but his shoulders will be towards your direction, and then when you go to talk, he will usually immediately turn to you to listen.
14. (from a girl w/experience)If he likes you, you and your friends will be able to tell.How you may ask?Well, when a guy likes you, you could ask a friend to ask him(out of the blue) do you like so-and-so?If he says no , he might just be covering it up.But, if he doesn’t say anything, he just might.
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you don’t have troubles he likes you
OMG he likes you and his soul desires a girl with beauty in her eyes and heart, his desire is you. You must go and tell him that you like him, or he will come after your and sweep you off your feet like a romantic man. Basically you guys should go out.
wow
i just saw this
and its exactly the same scenario with me
uhhhhh actually i decided the guy was a jerk and i went out with someone id known much longer
BUT
i think you should just drop some hints on him
talk more
smile back at him in class
i know cuz it is reallly really hard for us girls to make the first move
you dont want to embarrass yourself
but if he isnt too dumb he will catch the hints and ask you out!
GOOD LUCK:)
or he’s looking at some other body part of yours
It sounds like he’s interested. Flirt a little, let him know that you are interested, too. then after awhile ask him out on a date! good luck!!
he totally likes u, if u want to just play with it and flirt back cuz thts wht he wants, n if ur a straight to the point person then ask him out………if u like him
it sounds like he would be a good bf
Um, ask him, it’s the only way you’ll know. If he rejects you, oh well, there’s several billion more out there. 😉
he definetly has a thing 4 youu :]
go with the flow he likes u likes u if he dosen ask u out in the next week hes crazy or if its ok with u ask him out girl!!!!!!
I know what the guy feels when a girl i liked talked to me like that it made my day, a simple wave or smile would give me happiness and fulfillment. every day i woke up i couldnt wait to get to school to see her, but after a while i wanted more i am a chicken and i never make the first move so when i saw her i would just laugh at all her jokes and till this day our relationship is the same please do all guys a favor for once and ask him out….PLEASE!!! give the guy a break
The answer is simple…He likes you!!! Don’t let it slip. When you guys are alone it will be less ground and more eyes. Trust me, it works like clockwork.